What is true love?
1Corinthians 13:4-7 SAYS
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, It does not ENVY, it does not BOUST, it is not PROUD, It is not RUDE, it is not SELFSEEKING, itis not easily ANGERED, it keeps no record of WRONGS.
Love does not delight in EVIL, but rejoices with the TRUTH. IT always PROTECTS, always TRUSTS, always HOPES, always PERSEVERES.
So have you been putting these into practice?
- Love is spelled G-I-V-E. It is always giving.
- Love shows respect for one another.
- Love has no conditions for acceptane.
- Love is realistic. It doesn´t live in a dream world.
- Love takes responsibility for its loved one.
- Love is demonstrated in a sustained commitent.
- Love never stops growing.
Ok! Now look at these.
Crush True Love
1- Starts and stops suddenly. 1- Grows over time.
2- Stays Shallow. 2- Grows deep.
3- Up and down feelings. 3- Steady commitment.
4- In love with love. 4- In love with a person.
5- Breaks up when irritated. 5- Doesn´t panic over problems.
6- Focuses on looks. 6- Focuses on character.
7- Takes. 7- Gives.
8- My feelings. 8- Other´s needs.
9- Self-centered. 9- Self-controlled.
10- Physical attraction first. 10- Emotional and spiritual attraction first.
11- Expects to find happiness. 11- Expects to work at happiness.
12- Ask´s, "How am I doing?" 12- Asks, "How are you doing?"
13- Accepts if other is good enough. 13- Accepts unconditionally.
14- Thinks the other person is perfect. 14- Sees strengths and weaknesses.
15- Avoids problems. 15- Works through problems.
So did you compare the CHRUSH with TRUE LOVE? Well then check it out Ok!
There is a heap of difference! RIGHT!
Crushes go away. BUT TRUE LOVE LASTS!!!!
Crushes are when girls get googly-eyed at boys. It´s when boys puoch girls in the arm. Maybe you wouldn´t mistake those gushy feeling for true love. But look at some of the huge differences between crushes and True Love agian above.
Now answer in your own words:
What´s the difference between crushes and True Love?
1John ¨4:8 SAYS
Anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is Love.
Crushes go away. But True Love lasts. Even if a guy - girl friendship doen´t end in marriage, true love still keeps on loving. Do those charateristics of true love reminds you of someone ? They should, because they reflect the characteristics of God´s love for you. You are the object of that selfless, unconditional love every day. And when you start to live out those traits in your human relationships, you mirror God´s LOVE.
Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength
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